There may be submissive girls who have not yet tried the cane. But I cannot believe there are any who have not thought of it, with a mixture of fear and fascination. It is, is it not, the ultimate weapon in the dom’s armoury. There may be other implements that hurt as much (though I have yet to discover them), but none which have quite the mystique.
What is the source of the cane’s aura? In part it derives from a solid basis of fact, that, properly wielded, it can impart a impressive level of pain, and is capable of leaving bruises that, depending on the susceptibility of the girl, can last for days or even weeks. The cane delivers its force to a highly focussed area. It’s thin, and so the effect is not diffused, as with a belt or tawse. And because of this, the pain is penetrating. It seems to go right down through the flesh, to reach the core beneath, the tender, throbbing core of the poor trembling submissive.
Perhaps part of its mystique derives from its history. Traditionally the cane has been, together with the whip, the implement of choice for judicial purposes. In some benighted countries it is still in use. Fortunately, in the civilised world it merely carries echoes of its use in legally sanctioned punishment. For men of my generation it is associated mostly with the headmaster’s study, an implement kept hanging behind the door or perhaps hidden in a drawer, and produced with due solemnity. ‘Six of the best’ has such a ring to it that I still tend to cane girls in bursts of six, hopefully followed by six more.
In some ways the cane is an easier implement to wield than the belt or the tawse, which, being flexible, are not so controllable and which, if you are not skilled, can land on the edge and not full on, thus producing a cutting effect which may be more than you desire. The only problem with the cane is making sure you get it in the right place, because if you stray too high you run the risk of hitting the coccyx, and that’s nasty.
I shall not discourse on the ideal length for a cane, or how thick it should be, or the relative merits of different materials (though simple bamboo is what I prefer). Each to his choice. Nor shall I express a preference for the method. Cold caning has its advocates, I know, though I do believe that the more warm-up she gets the more strokes she can absorb. But each dom will experiment to get the best results.
I have a sneaking suspicion that no girl feels she has truly earned her spurs as a submissive until she has undergone the cane. I tend to take that view myself. Hand, belt, whatever, are delightful things to use on an inviting bottom. But I am always looking for the girl to graduate to the cane. That’s when things get serious.
Wednesday, 25 January 2012
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I have never posted here before but had to laugh when I read your post and felt compelled to comment. As a newbie that has not experienced that cane I have to say the fear and fascination is definately there. I also agree with your comment regarding earning her spurs and honestly it is something I would I am looking forward too. All that being said ...I don't think I would even jokingly bring it up because of the fear factor. I'll just keep quiet on that front and give myself a little more time.
I'm not ready to think about the cane just yet. Even pics of cane stripes make my backside tingle, and not in a good way. If you don't mind, I'll sit this one out.
Fear + fascination. Yes. Submissive spurs. Yes.
You're right. As usual.
I love love love the cane. It hurts so good, leaves beautiful marks and is hard to take. I miss it so much. Just thinking about it makes me purr.
not all submissives are masochists
And, strange to relate, not all masochists are submissive.
i have always been terrified of the cane...i don't know why.Master has not really mentioned it much so i may never have to face this fear....but at the same time i find it facinating.
Are all dominants sadists? Couldn't it be enough to just have someone submit without it involving, at some point, the same punishment you'd get for stealing a bicycle in Taiwan?
No, not all dominants are sadists, but there's nothing more exciting to a masochist submissive than a very sadist dom.
And those who don't enjoy erotic pain will never understand the thrill of being caned.
"...no girl feels she has truly earned her spurs as a submissive until she has undergone the cane."
You are so right, Sir.
B.E.G.
I love the cane its my favourite implement and when allowed its what i will choose.
However as stated it depends on certain factors, when caned without a warm-up (usually as a punishment) i cant handle it and it hurts in an unbearable way.
But with a good warm up and a steady rhythum i can take and enjoy a hard caning and easily reach subspace and i adore wearing the marks with pride.
I think people fear the cane (with good reason) because of its reputation but by no means does a caning have to be hard it can be applied lightly and erotically.
just my thoughts
I'm positive its very exciting for a bicycle thief in Taiwan to steal bicycles, too. Right up until he/she gets caught and gets their ass caned. It takes every kind of people to make the world go round, some of us just want to do it without getting caned.
Se la vie.
i have a love-hate relationship with the cane. it's right up there with my hairbrush as far as pain-factor goes....though the hairbrush wins, hands down, as His most painful toy.
nilla
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