Greedy

One thing I know about submissive girls: they are greedy. However much you give them, they always want more. So they like to have their nipples teased and tormented? No matter how much they squeal and writhe and look at you with eyes that implore you to be merciful, you can depend on it that the moment you stop they are looking to have just a little more. Their nipples were a moment ago suffering unbearably, like red-hot needles piercing them, but once the pain stops they are hoping you may insist on more. Don’t tell me it isn’t so. I’ve been there with them, I’ve seen how they feed on the pain, how the more it hurts the more they need.

It’s the same with a beating. A mere hand-spanking, across the knee, just whets the appetite. Something a bit harsher, a belt maybe or a tawse, convinces them that you are serious. And the one thing a submissive girl needs to know is that you are not a dilettanti, you aren’t just messing around. You really mean to give her a leathering. You mean to make your mark. She wants it to sting so that at each stroke she gives a little jump and hops around and tries to position herself so the next one won’t hit quite the same spot. But if you truly know what you are doing, that’s exactly what it will do, land precisely on the place that is smarting from the previous blow. But for the true pain-slut (and I’ve been lucky enough to know a few), all this is merely the warm-up. What she needs is something cruel, something that will take her breath away, something that will deliver more than she bargained for. That something is probably the cane (about which I have written before, and will again soon).

So, with a greedy little slut bent over and squirming and moaning, you want to make sure you don’t disappoint. You don’t want to hear her say afterwards, very softly yet in a voice that has an unmistakable note of, if not complaint, then entreaty for next time, ‘I could have taken more, Sir.’ To which she adds, careful not to be thought of as topping from the bottom, ‘If that had been your wish.’

And yet, despite all your best endeavours, you may still be left with a sneaking suspicion that you could have, should have, gone further. You didn’t quite take her to where she really was sated with pain and humiliation. Still, in her dark heart, or in her greedy little mind, she craved just a little more.

So what is to be done? How to satisfy the insatiable? I think what one has to bear in mind is that a submissive girl longs not only for pain but also for control. She wants to feel that things have been taken out of her hands, that she no longer makes the decisions. Doing what she is told is a source of no less pleasure to her than is a beating at your hands. So, instead of trying to squeeze every last bit of masochistic desire out of her, make it very clear that you intend to leave her wanting, that this is all part of the plan. ‘Yes,’ you say, ‘I think you can take more. Perhaps next time you will take more. But right now you need to know who decides when enough is enough. And I think it’s very clear it’s not you. Wouldn’t you agree?’