Ruined

There’s a practice which seems to be widespread among dommes and the men who are submissive to them, generally known as ‘the ruined orgasm’. She manipulates his cock to the point where he is desperate to come. She may fellate him some, but it will be mostly done by hand, so that she can closely observe his face, and his cock too. She wants to bring him to the point where orgasm is imminent. Then, just at the moment when he thinks he has reached the point of no return, she will stop, leaving him in sexual limbo. When he has pulled back from the brink a little, she will resume, once more inducing a state of near-ejaculation, only once more to disappoint him. She enjoys hearing his groans of frustration, feeling how his cock twitches under her fingers. Strictly speaking (and is there any other way where d/s is concerned?) it’s not a ruined orgasm if he doesn’t get to come at all. But, if she is very skilled, she may allow just a few little drops of semen to dribble down his cock before stimulation ceases again; he knows that whatever happens, the full load will not be released. Or there are other ways of inhibiting the orgasm, by blocking the outlet with a thumb, or distracting him at the last moment with some shock, like an ice cube or a sharp slap.

This activity, of constant arousal and refusal, can go on for a long time, until she tires of the game. At the conclusion of the exercise the submissive reverts to his default state, under strict orgasm control, or even total denial. She has enjoyed demonstrating her total control of him; his pleasure is in submitting to her power, and perversely gaining satisfaction from her delight in his discomfiture.

My question is, can one imagine a reversal, in which a submissive girl is tormented with the orgasm which is dangled in front of her, but which is never to come quite within her grasp? I think for this I’d want to tie her down, naked on her back; you won’t want her trying to ‘help’ in any way. I might begin with a little cunnilingus, just to get the juices flowing. Then perhaps some lube to make her cunt extra slippery when I put my fingers in her. I’d work on her clit, but very slowly, much more slowly than she wants. It’s a tease, after all. It might be nice to find her g-spot with my fingers while I lick her clit, but most of the time I’d want to be paying close attention to her face and watching her body language. I need to know when she is close. Of course I’ve made it clear beforehand that she is not to come without permission. She’s still under the illusion that if she asks nicely enough I’ll allow it. (This deception only works the first time around!) I bring her as close as I dare without triggering an unstoppable reaction, and if I can I’d hold her poised on the brink, my finger still touching her clit but not moving, while she’s suspended between coming and not coming.

We’d have a little rest and start again. There are some girls, I know, who can make themselves come without any touching (though I’ve never actually met one). But remember, coming has been forbidden, under pain of something so extremely severe she’d better not even think about. So if she’s the kind of girl who can get herself off even once the masturbation has stopped, she’d better think again and not do it.

After doing this for a long, long time, she wouldn’t be the only one desperate for an orgasm. So maybe I’d just have her watch me do it, and let her see my pleasure erupt and spurt onto her belly. And then I’d leave her tied up, my semen drying on her skin, while I got myself a drink. Being a nice guy, not mean in the least, I’d probably let her have a sip.