Saturday, 7 November 2009

Forced orgasms

Can you force someone to have an orgasm? It’s an act of intense pleasure, greatly desired. So why would you force someone to have an orgasm when they want one anyway? And since to achieve an orgasm one must have desire, can one actually be forced into having one if the initial desire is not there? Can you make someone feel sexy if they don’t want to? To what extent is the body capable of being stimulated against one’s will? Common sense might suggest, very little. But I think where a relationship is based on domination and submission, issues of desire and will can be quite complicated.

Some girls like to be tied up. They like to be rendered completely helpless, bound hand and foot so that they can’t move an inch. So what are you going to do with them once you’ve got them in that position? What if they don’t like pain, don’t want to be spanked or have their nipples clamped? They like to feel powerless, but they don’t want to be hurt. Well, there’s always the humiliation consequent upon objectification. You can make an intimate inspection of their body, taking advantage of their plight to take a long look at what is usually hidden, and you can poke your fingers or any other bits of you into whatever parts of her you please. And it’s good to tease her, stroking and nibbling and pinching in all sorts of places, seeing how stiff her nipples get or how wet you can make her.

But sooner or later the question will arise, are you going to make her come or not? It’s fun to tease, to prolong to an almost unbearable extent the resolution of the issue. Submissive girls can be awfully impatient, and teaching them a lesson in the virtue of waiting on your pleasure, and not immediately achieving their own, can be valuable. But eventually, you will probably decide to push her over the edge, even if just to watch her up close as the spasms of ecstasy overtake her.

But what then? Are you just going to untie her and let her go? There are further possibilities, surely. She’s just had an orgasm. Perhaps she ought to have another. Why? No reason at all, except it’s your whim, and you enjoy watching her lose control at the moment of climax. So you decide she should go again. Now, it’s my experience of submissive little sluts that once is rarely enough, and so the opportunity for a second helping is eagerly accepted. And maybe another one too, after a pause to get her breath back. But, and here’s where it starts to get interesting, suppose you want to try for a fourth, or a fifth, or more? Even the greediest girl will at some point feel that enough is enough. That’s when you insist that you will be the one to decide when it’s time to stop.

I’ve probably lost a few readers by now. I know this sort of thing isn’t for everyone. But I also know that some girls really do get off on it. They love the control and the helplessness, and they love the idea that they can be a completely shameless slut, coming over and over again, yet can’t be blamed for it because, after all, it’s being forced on them.

My experience, for what it’s worth, is that if you are going to work this particular trick you need two things (apart from a willing victim). Firstly, it works best if you have an industrial-strength vibrator. A Hitachi Wand would be ideal. A girl once told me having an orgasm with such a machine felt like it was being wrenched out of her by force, which is precisely the effect you are aiming for.

And the other thing? I guess the dom needs to have an evil mind, prepared to ride roughshod over her protestations of ‘no more, please, no more!’ You have to be willing to really push her, show her who’s in charge. You might be surprised just what results can be achieved.

2 comments:

doll said...

Devilish results are achieved. Tears and misery. But with the wonders of our sluttly bodies just a short while later they have forgotton that orgasm ever occured and are pouting prettily in the expectation of being granted just one more.

Anonymous said...

i totally agree with doll - i have been made to orgasm so many times that i was actually begging my Master to stop as it was exhausting (he didn't until i had managed to cum fully 14 times). but only an hour later i was ready for more.

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